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		<title>Newly Discovered Family Keepsake: 1956 Baby Shower Card</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[In clearing out the attic over the past several months, I&#8217;ve discovered a few items that hold opposite meanings for myself and my adoptive mother: Greeting cards. But not just any type of greeting card. There are Baby&#8217;s First Christmas, Baby&#8217;s First Birthday, Baby&#8217;s First Valentine. The one that struck me the most, however, was the 1956 [...]]]></description>
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