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	<title>Forbidden Family &#187; Haiti&#8217;s Orphans</title>
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	<description>A Half Orphan&#039;s Account of Her Adoption, Reunion and Social Activism * * * Promoting Adoption Reform Since 1974</description>
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		<title>Unitarian Universaltist Church Does Not Quite Get it About Mothers Day and Adoption</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2010/05/09/unitarian-universaltist-church-does-not-quite-get-it-about-mothers-day-and-adoption/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 May 2010 23:09:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>halforphan56</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Adoption Loss]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoption Trauma]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Amended Birth Certificate]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[adoption prevention]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Debra Hafner]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Honoring all Mothers]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I write today’s blog post from the point of view of being the daughter of two mothers: one who gave me life and the other who raised me. It is not easy being the daughter of two mothers, especially since my time with my first mother was so short. She died when I was three [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Quick Words of My Own: The Message is More Important than Who Writes It</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2010/02/21/quick-words-of-my-own-the-message-is-more-important-than-who-writes-it/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 15:52:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>halforphan56</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adoptee Birth Certificates]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Adoption Loss]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoption Psychology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoption Trauma]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family Preservation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Haiti's Orphans]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[guest posts]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[posting words of others on intercountry adoptions]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[While I have been unable to find my own words since the earthquake in Haiti because suddenly there are orphans, orphans, everywhere orphans, or so-called orphans, I have found comfort in the words of others. This is why I have directed my readers to other bloggers who have written about the adopt-an-orphan craze that is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Intercountry Adoption Highly Regarded by American Public Even as Numbers of Adoptions are in Free-Fall</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2010/02/18/intercountry-adoption-highly-regarded-by-american-public-even-as-numbers-of-adoptions-are-in-free-fall/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 01:07:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>halforphan56</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adoptees' Civil Rights]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many of you may be wondering why I, a half orphan, am not commenting much about the situation in Haiti. The reason is because this hits too close to my heart. Unlike most of the talk of adoption in America that surrounds the morality or immorality about the ‘sins’ of unwed mothers and how we ‘must’ [...]]]></description>
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		<title>From UAI: Coloured Kids Not Welcome in the US?</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2010/02/17/from-uai-coloured-kids-not-welcome-in-the-us/</link>
		<comments>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2010/02/17/from-uai-coloured-kids-not-welcome-in-the-us/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 04:34:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>halforphan56</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adoption Loss]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoption Psychology]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Family Systems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Haiti's Orphans]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[World is being deceived ? Coloured kids not welcome in the US ? While the Homolobby and the involved Adoption Agency in the Netherlands made clear last year, that the urgency is there to adopt coloured children from the US while they are not adoptable within US boarders, the US is lifting hundreds to thousands [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Racist Comments on Haiti Prompt Re-Post of Statement by Adoptees of Color Roundtable</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2010/02/08/racist-comments-on-haiti-prompt-re-post-of-statement-by-adoptees-of-color-roundtable/</link>
		<comments>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2010/02/08/racist-comments-on-haiti-prompt-re-post-of-statement-by-adoptees-of-color-roundtable/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 05:50:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>halforphan56</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adoption Loss]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoption Psychology]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[falsified Certificate of Live Birth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family Reunification]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Keep Siblings Together in Haiti]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[natural family systems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Natural Parents Civil Rights]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[need for change in adoption law]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[need for change in social policy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Orphans in Haiti]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[United Nations Rights of the Child]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[As the title of this blog post states, some very rude and ignorant racial slurs were left in my inbox this past weekend. I have closed all sections to Comments as a result. Also, though I am of mixed white ethnic groups, I fully support adoptees of color. Here is a re-print of their excellent [...]]]></description>
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