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	<title>Forbidden Family &#187; Adoption Reunions are Ongoing</title>
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	<description>I&#039;m a legitimate half orphan bastardized by adoption ... Promoting Adoption Reform Since 1974</description>
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		<title>Part 5: Response to The Buffalo News 3-Part Series Search for Yesterday: Adoptive, Birth Parents See Reunion Problems: My Natural Father Speaks Out 1984</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2010/08/13/part-5-response-to-the-buffalo-news-3-part-series-search-for-yesterday-adoptive-birth-parents-see-reunion-problems-my-natural-father-speaks-out-1984/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Aug 2010 22:48:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Part 5: Response to The Buffalo News 3-Part Series Search for Yesterday: Adoptive and Birth Parents See Reunion Problems: My Natural Father Speaks Out 1984]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Appearances are deceiving, or are they?   I honestly don’t know where to begin. Right from the start there are the two adoptive mothers who are defending their rights to someone else’s child: “I don’t want to sound unsympathetic to birth parents” She just did by dismissing their loss of their child. “I wouldn’t want [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Part 3: The Buffalo News 3-Part Series Search for Yesterday (Adoptees) 1984</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2010/08/10/part-3-the-buffalo-news-3-part-series-search-for-yesterday-adoptees-1984/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Aug 2010 22:36:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[reporter misquoting adoptee causing misunderstanding]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The Buffalo News series Seach For Yesterday Double Trouble Adoptees Face Fear Betrayal When Looking For Birth Parents]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here is the main article that offended my adoptive family and natural family because I went public &#8212; I put my face and name in the newspaper. Though I had been interviewed for newspaper and radio and public television on and off since 1976, and had been writing Letters to the Editor since 1975 (paid [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What I&#8217;m Doing This Summer</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2010/07/13/what-im-doing-this-summer-2/</link>
		<comments>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2010/07/13/what-im-doing-this-summer-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 15:17:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nursing homes, hospitals, funerals and memorials, declining health, recovery, inevitable death, fear of the unknown, fear of death, sadness, grief, reconciliation, savor the moments, overwhelming contradictory feelings, and simple joys &#8212; these are my summer activities. This is a time of daily struggle for family and friends. We&#8217;re aging. Our parents are dying. Our spouses are [...]]]></description>
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