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	<title>Forbidden Family &#187; Adoption Trauma</title>
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	<description>I&#039;m a legitimate half orphan bastardized by adoption ... Promoting Adoption Reform Since 1974</description>
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		<title>Joe Soll&#8217;s Video on Coersion and Single Mom</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2012/04/15/jjoe-solls-video-on-coersion-and-single-mom/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 03:24:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>legitimatebastard</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adoption Loss]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Adoption or Abduction?]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Coersion and Single Mom The effects of the loss of a baby on women who lost them to adoption * * * * Joe Soll&#8217;s video is in direct response to Dan Rather&#8217;s story introducing his upcoming show on May 1st, 2012: Adoption or Abduction? &#8212; Forced Adoptions for Unwed Mothers:  http://news.yahoo.com/forced-adoptions-for-unwed-mothers-around-the-globe.html]]></description>
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		<title>Re-Post from Daily Kos: Adoption Apologies Expected in Australia &#8211; Why Not in America?</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2012/03/20/re-post-from-daily-kos-adoption-apologies-expected-in-australia-why-not-in-america/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Mar 2012 19:55:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>legitimatebastard</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adoptees' Civil Rights]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoption apologies]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[government]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[international]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This must be shared: http://www.dailykos.com/story/2012/03/13/1074096/-Adoption-Apologies-Expected-in-Australia-Why-Not-in-America- Tue Mar 13, 2012 at 02:46 PM PDT Adoption Apologies Expected in Australia &#8211; Why Not in America? by jdelbalzoFollow Tue Mar 13, 2012 at 02:46 PM PDTIn recent weeks, the Australian Senate inquiry into past adoption practices urged the government to apologize for separating thousands of familiesin the decades [...]]]></description>
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		<title>An open letter to APs, PAPs, and anyone who has even considered adoption</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2011/12/08/an-open-letter-to-aps-paps-and-anyone-who-has-even-considered-adoption/</link>
		<comments>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2011/12/08/an-open-letter-to-aps-paps-and-anyone-who-has-even-considered-adoption/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2011 17:21:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>legitimatebastard</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adoptee's Conflicting Emotions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoption Loss]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoption Psychology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoption Trauma]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoptive Parents]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family Systems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Natural Fathers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Natural Mothers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adopted people are not gifts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoptee's search has nothing to do with adoptive parents]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoptees]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoptees are expected to always be careful not to "hurt" their adoptive parents]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoptees are expected to be grateful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoptees have problems trusting others and forming relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoptees' birthdays are not a cause for celebration]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoptees' birthdays mark the day we were physically separated from our mothers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoption is a thing to mourn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoption is not a cure for infertility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoption trauma]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[all adoptees have two sets of real parents]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[being adopted hurts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[being adopted is cause for great sadness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[don't EVER use the horribly offensive and insensitive term "Gotcha Day”]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[educate yourself]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[expected to be grateful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family preservation should always be the goal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear of rejection and abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[help your adoptee to heal]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[openness and honesty in adoption]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[ramifications of adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tell the truth to your adoptee]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Would YOU have liked it if your mother gave you away?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[you could have been aborted]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[you could have been thrown in a dumpster]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[The following was written by an anonymous adult adoptee who has given permission for this letter to be posted here.    (What you are about to read may shock you.  It may challenge you.  And, hopefully, it may inspire you to educate yourself further on the realities of adoption. Please read the following with an [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Truth in Adoption: My Adoptive Mother Threw My Birth Certificates, Baptismal Certificates, and Final Order of Adoption on the Table</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2010/11/02/truth-in-adoption-my-adoptive-mother-threw-my-birth-certificates-baptismal-certificates-and-final-order-of-adoption-on-the-table/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Nov 2010 14:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>halforphan56</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adoptee Birth Certificates]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Adoptee True Sealed Birth Certificate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoption Psychology]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[adoptee as caged pet]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoptee being scorned by adoptive mother for the truth of her birth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional scars from being deliberately lied to]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[original birth certificate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[safety deposit box]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I did not see my birth certificate for the first 18 years of my life. I found this out when I was 18. A few days after being found by siblings my adoptive parents did not want me to know, my adoptive mother retrieved a large manila envelope from a bank’s safety deposit box. Mom [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Truth in Adoption: I Was the Skeleton in the Closet</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2010/11/01/truth-in-adoption-i-was-the-skeleton-in-the-closet/</link>
		<comments>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2010/11/01/truth-in-adoption-i-was-the-skeleton-in-the-closet/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 22:27:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>halforphan56</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adoptee's Conflicting Emotions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoption Loss]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoption Psychology]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[adoptive parents and lies]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoptive parents hiding the truth about my blood siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoptive parents' god children]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[don't live in the past]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[excuses used by adoptive parents]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[get over it]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[it is over and done with]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[it's the way it was done]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[let it be]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[National Adoption Awareness Month]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[skeletons in the closet]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stories told about adoptee's birth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[things are different now]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[who are my god parents?]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[For the duration of my childhood, I was raised with the belief that my birth was “the skeleton in the closet” and that I was to never ask about it. I was simply told two different stories during my childhood. The stories were never discussed, just stated. The first story was told to me when [...]]]></description>
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