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	<description>I&#039;m a legitimate half orphan bastardized by adoption ... Promoting Adoption Reform Since 1974</description>
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		<title>Joe Soll&#8217;s Video on Coersion and Single Mom</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2012/04/15/jjoe-solls-video-on-coersion-and-single-mom/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 03:24:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>legitimatebastard</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adoption Loss]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoption Trauma]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Adoption or Abduction?]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Coersion and Single Mom The effects of the loss of a baby on women who lost them to adoption * * * * Joe Soll&#8217;s video is in direct response to Dan Rather&#8217;s story introducing his upcoming show on May 1st, 2012: Adoption or Abduction? &#8212; Forced Adoptions for Unwed Mothers:  http://news.yahoo.com/forced-adoptions-for-unwed-mothers-around-the-globe.html]]></description>
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		<title>Re-Post from Daily Kos: Adoption Apologies Expected in Australia &#8211; Why Not in America?</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2012/03/20/re-post-from-daily-kos-adoption-apologies-expected-in-australia-why-not-in-america/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Mar 2012 19:55:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>legitimatebastard</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adoptees' Civil Rights]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This must be shared: http://www.dailykos.com/story/2012/03/13/1074096/-Adoption-Apologies-Expected-in-Australia-Why-Not-in-America- Tue Mar 13, 2012 at 02:46 PM PDT Adoption Apologies Expected in Australia &#8211; Why Not in America? by jdelbalzoFollow Tue Mar 13, 2012 at 02:46 PM PDTIn recent weeks, the Australian Senate inquiry into past adoption practices urged the government to apologize for separating thousands of familiesin the decades [...]]]></description>
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		<title>An open letter to APs, PAPs, and anyone who has even considered adoption</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2011/12/08/an-open-letter-to-aps-paps-and-anyone-who-has-even-considered-adoption/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2011 17:21:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>legitimatebastard</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adoptee's Conflicting Emotions]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Natural Fathers]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[adopted people are not gifts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoptee's search has nothing to do with adoptive parents]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[adoptees are expected to always be careful not to "hurt" their adoptive parents]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoptees are expected to be grateful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoptees have problems trusting others and forming relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoptees' birthdays are not a cause for celebration]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoptees' birthdays mark the day we were physically separated from our mothers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoption is a thing to mourn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoption is not a cure for infertility]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[all adoptees have two sets of real parents]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[being adopted hurts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[being adopted is cause for great sadness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[don't EVER use the horribly offensive and insensitive term "Gotcha Day”]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[educate yourself]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[expected to be grateful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family preservation should always be the goal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear of rejection and abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[help your adoptee to heal]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[openness and honesty in adoption]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[ramifications of adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tell the truth to your adoptee]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Would YOU have liked it if your mother gave you away?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[you could have been aborted]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[you could have been thrown in a dumpster]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[The following was written by an anonymous adult adoptee who has given permission for this letter to be posted here.    (What you are about to read may shock you.  It may challenge you.  And, hopefully, it may inspire you to educate yourself further on the realities of adoption. Please read the following with an [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Lawsuit Claims Birth Certificate of Schwarzenegger&#8217;s Love Child Was Falsified</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2011/06/01/lawsuit-claims-birth-certificate-of-schwarzeneggers-love-child-was-falsified/</link>
		<comments>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2011/06/01/lawsuit-claims-birth-certificate-of-schwarzeneggers-love-child-was-falsified/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jun 2011 23:20:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>legitimatebastard</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[False Information on Birth Certificate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family Systems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Genealogy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Natural Fathers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Arnold Schwarzenegger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lawsuit over false information on birth certificate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Rogelio Baena]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[The ex-husband of Arnold Schwarzenegger&#8217;s lover plans to sue claiming that “the birth certificate of the couple’s love child was falsified.” Details can be found here. I’m not sure if Rogelio Baena stands a chance in his lawsuit against Arnold Schwarzenegger. While I agree with his outrage and the fact that his name is on [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Sealed Birth Records Perpetuate the Stigma of Illegitimacy Even When One is Born Legitimately</title>
		<link>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2011/01/21/sealed-birth-records-perpetuate-the-stigma-of-illegitimacy-even-when-one-is-born-legitimately/</link>
		<comments>http://forbiddenfamily.net/2011/01/21/sealed-birth-records-perpetuate-the-stigma-of-illegitimacy-even-when-one-is-born-legitimately/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Jan 2011 22:02:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>legitimatebastard</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adoptee Birth Certificates]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoptees' Civil Rights]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Amended Birth Certificate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Original Birth Certificate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[illegitimate vs legitimate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mothers in hiding]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[not all adoptees are illegitimate]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[There is the assumption that all adoptees come from “shameful” births that “need” to be hidden by sealed birth records. This is just not so. There are many adoptees who were relinquished by widowed parents, divorced parents, and parents who remain married after surrender. None of these adoptions warrant the stigma of illegitimacy and the [...]]]></description>
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