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• Categories

  • Adoptee Birth Certificates
  • Adoptee False Baptismal Certificate
  • Adoptee False Legal Birth Certificate
  • Adoptee True Sealed Birth Certificate
  • Adoptee's Conflicting Emotions
  • Adoptees' Civil Rights
  • Adoption Loss
  • Adoption Psychology
  • Adoption Reunions are Ongoing
  • Adoption Trauma
  • Adoptive Parents
  • Agreement to Adopt
  • Amended Birth Certificate
  • Baby Has Two Sets of Parents
  • Consent to Adoption (Relinquishment)
  • Death and Dying
  • Embryo Mixup
  • False Information on Birth Certificate
  • Family Preservation
  • Family Systems
  • Final Order of Adoption
  • Genealogy
  • Haiti's Orphans
  • Hospital Apology
  • International Adoption
  • Missing Baby
  • mutual consent registries
  • Natural Fathers
  • Natural Mothers
  • New York State Adoption Reunion Registry
  • Obituaries
  • Original Birth Certificate
  • Petition and Description of Natural Family and Preadoptive Family
  • Race and Adoption
  • Reproductive technologies
  • Reunions are not bad
  • Sealed Adoption Records
  • The Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute
  • True Birth Certificate for Donor-Conceived
  • Uncategorized
  • Unintended Surrogate Mother

• Copyright Notice

  © Joan Mary Wheeler, BA, BSW, and Forbidden Family, 2009-2010. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material pertaining to the author’s life, personal and professional opinions, without express and written permission from this website’s author and owner is strictly prohibited. Excerpts and links may be used, provided that full and clear credit is given to Joan Mary Wheeler, BA, BSW, with appropriate and specific direction to the original content. Ideas pertaining to adoption reform and political action are encouraged.

• Stop Sealing and Falsifying Adoptees’ Birth Certificates

  Unconditional Access for Adoptees to an uncensored and certified copy of their currently sealed Original Birth Certificates is only part of the solution: No Parental Permission Required, No Intermediaries, No Compromises. Adoptees’ and Natural Parents’ Civil and Human Rights have been Compromised for too many decades.
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  “Amended Birth Certificates are Falsified ‘Live Birth’ Certificates and are Truly State-Sanctioned Identity Theft of Adoptees and Our Children After Us” (quote by Peach).
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  Stop the legal practice of issuing false Live Birth Certificates to adoptees by correctly documenting Birth and Adoptions. The Netherlands tells the truth in Birth and Adoption Records and so can the United States. Amended Birth Certificates in adoption need to be declared NULL and VOID.
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  Something is fishy between International Agencies: While the United Nations, through UNICEF, promotes registering every child’s birth, The Hague Convention on Intercountry Adoption REQUIRES a ‘new’ (amended and false) Live Birth Certificate for every child who is adopted. Why the contradiction in legal policy, especially coming from The Hague, in The Netherlands, a country that has never had sealed nor falsified birth certificates?
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  Parents who use Anonymous Sperm, Eggs or Embryos are not yet legally required to tell the truth on their Donor-Conceived child's Birth Certificate in the USA. Donor-Conceived Individuals deserve true Birth Certificates with full disclosure of who are the Donor-Parents. ... Honesty is a Family Value.
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  End child creation by Artificial Reproductive Technologies. End child abduction and child identity theft by ending adoption.
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  Adoptions are being phased out in Australia, why not in USA?

• Caution: Anti Adoption

  - If you are here to learn, or to expand on the topics presented, that's great. Pithy comments, opposing viewpoints and debate are expected.
  - Myths, taboos, and distorted opinions will be challenged with facts.
  - Each adoptee and parent of adoption loss has a unique perspective. We can be blunt, sarcastic and sardonic.
  - Exposing raw reality is painful.
  - If you do not like what you read here, do not use this website.
  - Comment moderation is in place for the protection of valid website users.
  - Cyber bullying and stalking, malicious defamation of character, libel and slander, are prohibited by law. Violators will be prosecuted.

• 1 Birth Certificate + 1 Adoption Certificate = Adoption Truth

  Change Vital Statistics Law: Insist on Accurate Documentation for Births and Adoptions

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  We Need Universal Standardized Birth Certificates and Adoption Certificates in America

• How did I get my Original Birth Certificate?

  My natural father gave my OBC to my adopting parents when he relinquished me to them in 1956. My adoptive mother threw my birth certificates and adoption papers at me when I was 18 years old just days after I was found by siblings she did not want me to ever know.

• Why I Promote Adoption Reform:

  Even though I have had my OBC in my possession since 1974, I am still legally banned from receiving a certified copy of my true birth certificate from New York State.
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  My legal birth certificate says I was born to a woman who actually adopted me. All adoptees have legally falsified birth certificates.
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  All adoptees should have unrestricted access to their certified and true birth certificate.
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  Automatically issuing falsified birth certificates upon the finalization of adoption should be illegal. Falsified birth certificates should be replaced by truthful Certificates of Adoption.
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  All natural parents should receive a birth certificate for the daughter or son they created and gave birth to.
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  Siblings should never be permanently separated by adoption.
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  Adoptive Parents should never lie to their adoptees about the serious truth of one's birth and existing siblings, and all known details of that adoptee's life, including the knowledge of parental death for timely and appropriate grieving.
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  Adoption should be replaced by Family Preservation and Guardianship. See Website Pages under "Adoption Prevention" for more info.

• Why do you have to be so negative? Aren’t the children better off?”

  “This ‘better off’ argument is like justifying a rape because it produced a healthy baby. When the rich of the world use their power and money to take away the children of the poor, it is a crime, not a humanitarian act. “The ‘see no evil’, the ‘children are better off’ attitudes of the adoption community make the adoption system vulnerable to systematic child trafficking schemes.”

  - - - David M. Smolin, an adoptive father and Law & Ethics Professor at Samford University, Cumberland School of Law, in Birmingham, Alabama, USA.

• Practice Adoption Prevention

  Help save a family and a child’s place in that family by practicing Family Preservation. ... End the Legal Practice of Taking Another Parent's Child as Your Own. ... Closed or Open Adoption is Identity Theft, Family Theft, and Kidnapping.

• For Families in Crisis, Promote these Priorities:

  1 - Family Preservation

  2 - Reunification

  3 - Kinship Care

  4 - Guardianship

  NOT Adoption

• Abolish Adoption AmFor Anti Adoption

  • Abolish Adoption Petition
  • Anti Adoption Information
  • Petition Signers & Comments

• Activist Organizations

  • Adoption Crossroads – for Family Preservation & Reunification & Support
  • American Adoption Congress – AAC
  • Americans For Open Records – AmFOR
  • Bastard Nation
  • Green Ribbon Campaign for Open Records
  • Origins – USA – Protecting the Natural Right of Mothers to Nuture Their Children
  • Origins Canada – Supporting Those Separated by Adoption
  • Pound Pup Legacy
  • Senior Mothers Adoption Activist Coalition
  • The Adoptee Rights Demonstration

• Adoption News Reporting

  • Adoption Beat
  • Child Welfare Information Gateway
  • United Adoptees International – News

• Blogroll: Adoptees

  • 73adoptee
  • About-Orphans
  • According to Addie
  • Adopted Abused
  • Adopted Jane
  • Adoptees on Birthers at Open Salon
  • Adoption and Its Triad
  • Adoption Beat
  • Adoption Crossroads – for Family Preservation & Reunification & Support
  • Adoption is a Complex Issue – more on birth certs
  • Adoption Truth
  • Adult Adoptees
  • All Things Adoption: Ruining My Family Since 1958 – Daughter of an Adoptee
  • AmyAdoptee
  • Anti Adoption
  • Austin Holistic
  • Baby Love Child
  • Bastard Granny Annie
  • BBChurch's Funhouse
  • Beirut Diary Online – US Adoptee Who Moved Back to His Homeland of Lebanon
  • Breaking the Silence: On Living Pro-Lifers' Choice for Women
  • Children of the Corn: Nebraska's Child Abandoment Law: "Safe Haven"
  • Christianity and Adoption – Under a Microscope
  • Coleman Moms and Babes
  • Daniel Ibn Zayd (Yet another) angry transracial adoptee
  • Daniel Ibn Zayd on adoption
  • Declassified Adoptee
  • Ethnically Incorrect
  • Family Preservation
  • Harlow's Monkey: a social worker for reform in transracial and transnational adoption
  • Joy's Division
  • Madame Compassionateless – Why Anti Adoption
  • O Solo Moma
  • Once Was Von
  • Origins Canada – Supporting Those Separated by Adoption
  • Orphan Adoptions
  • Outlandish Remarks: a queer Korean adoptee talks back
  • Peach Neither Here Nor There
  • Possum's Place
  • Related Topics: Attorney's Blog on Family Law, Assisted Reproduction, Adoption
  • Rights of Adoptees
  • Stop Encouraging Child Abandonment
  • The Adopted Feminist – AntiAdoptionUK
  • The Adopted Ones Blog
  • The Adoptee Rights Demonstration
  • The Daily Bastardette
  • Transracial Abductees
  • Transracialeyes
  • Ungrateful Little Bastard
  • Writing My Wrongs

• Blogroll: Donor-Conceived

  • AAC – Statement: Assisted Reproduction Overview
  • Child of a Stranger
  • Confessions of a Cryokid
  • Donated Generation
  • Donor Child
  • Donor Conceived
  • Donor Issue
  • Fraudulent Birth Certificates of Donor Conceived
  • IVF Newborns at Risk
  • Needing Fathers: In IVF, People are Parting With Their Children, With No Accountability to Them
  • Related Topics: Attorney's Blog on Family Law, Assisted Reproduction, Adoption
  • Shawn Vandor 's Blog: another donor-conceived person

• Blogroll: Mothers of Adoption Loss

  • "birth" Mothers Exploited by Adoption
  • Aborted Mother
  • Adoption Critique
  • Adoption Crossroads – for Family Preservation & Reunification & Support
  • Christianity and Adoption – Under a Microscope
  • Coleman Moms and Babes
  • DNA Diaries
  • Family Preservation
  • First Mother Forum
  • Living in the Shadows
  • Motherhood Deleted
  • Musing Mother
  • Musings of The Lame
  • O Solo Moma
  • Origins – USA – Protecting the Natural Right of Mothers to Nuture Their Children
  • Origins Canada – Supporting Those Separated by Adoption
  • Related Topics: Attorney's Blog on Family Law, Assisted Reproduction, Adoption
  • Sandy Musser – Mother of Adoption Loss & Activist
  • Senior Mothers Adoption Activist Coalition
  • Surviving Adoption Loss

• International

  • Abdandon & Adoption – France
  • Daniel Ibn Zayd (Yet another) angry transracial adoptee
  • Daniel Ibn Zayd on adoption
  • International Social Service – Crossing Borders in Service and Support of Children and Families
  • Pound Pup Legacy
  • Statement on Haiti: Adoptees of Color Roundtable
  • The Adopted Feminist – AntiAdoptionUK
  • Transracial Abductees
  • Transracialeyes
  • United Adoptees International – addressing the human rights of adoptees
  • United Adoptees International – News

• Research and Policy

  • Adoption Beat
  • Child Welfare Information Gateway
  • Evan B Donaldson Adoption Institute

• Trauma Survival

  • Silence, Secrecy, and Shame Lead to Trauma

• Wordpress

  • Development Blog
  • Documentation
  • Plugins
  • Suggest Ideas
  • Support Forum
  • Themes

• StatPress

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• Tags

  • 1956 Baby Shower Card
  • 1993 Hague Convention on Protection of Children and Co-operation in Respect of Inter-country Adoptions
  • 19th Amendment
  • 2010
  • 2010 Census
  • 33 Haitian Children 10 are not Orphans
  • 5th Circuit Court of Appeals
  • AAC Announcement
  • ABC News
  • abuse of adoptee
  • abuse of mothers
  • abuse of pregnant mother
  • abuse of unborn baby due to maternal stress of coercion
  • Access to Sealed Origianl Birth Certificate
  • ACLU - American Civil Liberties Union
  • ACLU - NJ
  • ACLU New Jersey
  • action alert
  • adopted adult
  • adopted child
  • adopted people are not gifts
  • adoptee as caged pet
  • adoptee being scorned by adoptive mother for the truth of her birth
  • adoptee dilemma
  • adoptee emotional overload
  • adoptee found by natural family
  • Adoptee Rights Coalition
  • adoptee told many versions of truth
  • adoptee's right to the truth
  • adoptee's search has nothing to do with adoptive parents
  • Adoptees
  • adoptees are expected to always be careful not to "hurt" their adoptive parents
  • adoptees are expected to be grateful
  • adoptees are segregated from non-adoptees
  • adoptees bought and sold
  • adoptees civil liberties
  • adoptees have problems trusting others and forming relationships
  • Adoptees Liberty Movement Association
  • Adoptees of Color Roundtable
  • adoptees' access to original birth certificates
  • Adoptees' access to their own birth certificates
  • adoptees' birthdays are not a cause for celebration
  • adoptees' birthdays mark the day we were physically separated from our mothers
  • Adoptees' Civil Rights
  • adoptees' mental health
  • adoption
  • adoption abuse
  • adoption activists in Michigan
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  • adoption awareness
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  • adoption is a feminist issue
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  • adoption is big business
  • Adoption is not a cure for infertility
  • adoption is wonderful thing
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  • adoptive parents hiding the truth about my blood siblings
  • adoptive parents need guidance
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  • adoptive parents' god children
  • adopttees are forced to lie about their own births
  • advantages and disadvantages of Publish On Demand
  • agreement to adopt
  • airlifts of orphans
  • all adoptees have two sets of real parents
  • all or nothing thinking
  • ALMA
  • alternate family care
  • amended birth certifcate
  • Amended Birth Certificate
  • amended birth certificates
  • amended birth certificates of adoptees
  • American Adoption Congress
  • Americas Quarterly
  • anger at adoptee
  • anger at adoption activist
  • Annette Baran
  • anniversaries of deaths
  • anti adoption
  • anti-adoption community
  • apology for adoption in Western Australia
  • are your children adopted?
  • Arnold Schwarzenegger
  • assistance to help families in temporary crisis to remain intact
  • assumptions made by whites adopting children of color
  • baby bracelet
  • baby brokers
  • baby is not a blessing for another couple
  • BabyLifts
  • bad adoption reporting
  • ban marriages between first cousins
  • banning marriage between first cousins does not matter since adoptees birth certificates are sealed so they don't know who their first cousins really are
  • Baptist Missionaries
  • Bastard Nation
  • Bastard Nation Action Alert
  • bastards
  • being adopted hurts
  • being adopted is cause for great sadness
  • being found
  • being found vs searching
  • belief in adoption
  • best interest of the child
  • Betty Jean Lifton
  • biological identities
  • birth
  • birth certificate fraud
  • birth certificates
  • birth certificates for adoptees
  • Birther
  • Birthmothers
  • blood ancestors in America not accessible for adoptees
  • Blood Tie
  • Bonding By Blood Unlimited
  • book is available at all times through Trafford Publishing
  • book sales
  • Born to Be Ours
  • brainwashing in adoption
  • break the cycle of sealed and falsified birth certificates of adoptees
  • bribery
  • British Birth Certificates for the Donor-Conceived
  • broken trust
  • California AB 1325 Native adoptees
  • Call for Action
  • Care not removal
  • Catholic Agenda in Adoption
  • Catholic Church and sealed records
  • Cautioning Against Adopting Haiti's Earthquake-Traumatized Children
  • Census 2010
  • Certificate of Adoption
  • Chances for Children
  • change
  • change the system
  • Change.org
  • child abduction
  • child trafficking
  • child welfare experts
  • Childen's Human Rights
  • Children's Human Rights
  • Christiann Missionaries and harm to adoptees
  • Christmas as an Adoptee
  • Chuck Johnson
  • church community
  • church members doing god's will
  • circle of life
  • CNN News
  • coercion to give up a baby for adoption
  • Coersion and Single Mom
  • Concerned United Birthparents
  • consent to adoption (relinquishment)
  • conspiracy
  • constitutional right to be raised by one's own parents and with siblings
  • Convention of the Rights of the Child
  • copyright reverts back to author
  • Council of Equal Rights in Adoption
  • Council on Adoptable Children
  • crisis pregnancy center
  • CUB
  • Cully Ray
  • Dan Rather
  • dead people cannot register
  • death
  • death and dying
  • death of parents
  • Deborah Jacobs
  • Debra Hafner
  • deceased natural mother's hospital records
  • defamtion of charcter
  • deliberately use blasphemy to make a point
  • denial of facts of life to adoptee
  • Diane Crossfield
  • Diligence
  • Dirck Brown
  • Director of the Religious Institute
  • discrimination against white peopel who are part Native American
  • dishonor
  • disqualified for Miss Universe Contest
  • disreguard for mothers of adoption loss
  • DNA
  • doctor's office
  • doing God's work
  • don't EVER use the horribly offensive and insensitive term "Gotcha Day”
  • don't know kids' races
  • don't know my own ethnicity
  • don't know my own race
  • don't live in the past
  • Dr. Bruce Perry
  • Dr. David Brodzinsky
  • Dr. Gerado Lozada
  • Due Process in Adoption
  • Due process in adoption? Hardly
  • Dutch gay adoptive parents
  • early death of natural mother
  • early parental death
  • Earthquake in Chile
  • Earthquake in Haiti
  • Earthquake survivors in Buffalo New York USA
  • economic bias in adoption
  • educate yourself
  • either-or thinking
  • Elizabeth Johnson
  • emotional scars from being deliberately lied to
  • emotional trauma of adoption
  • Erin and Michael Lancer
  • ethically
  • excuses
  • excuses used by adoptive parents
  • expected to be grateful
  • faith-based group
  • false birth certificate
  • falsification of documents
  • falsification of material facts on new birth certificate for foreign born adoptee
  • falsified birth certifcates
  • falsified birth certificate
  • falsified birth certificates
  • falsified birth certificates of adoptees
  • falsified Certificate of Live Birth
  • family
  • family history
  • family history form
  • Family Preservation
  • Family preservation should always be the goal
  • Family Reunification
  • family secrets outed
  • Family Systems
  • family trees unknown
  • fans
  • Father's Rights
  • fatherhood
  • fathers experience postpartum depression
  • fathers of adoption loss
  • fear of rejection and abandonment
  • federal protection of the constitutional right to parent one's own childen
  • feminist thought
  • fictional birth records
  • Final Order of Adoption
  • Florence Fisher
  • for the sake of all children
  • Forbidden Family
  • Forbidden Family page 473
  • forced adoptions
  • forced assimilation
  • foreign born adoptees donot have full citizen rights
  • foreign born adoptees not able to become US President
  • foster care
  • fraud
  • friends
  • full orphan
  • Gabriel Johnson
  • gang stalking
  • gay rights trump birth rights of adoptee
  • gays and lesbians and the right to adopt
  • genealogy
  • generations
  • Genetic Parents
  • genetic roulette
  • Gerardo Medina
  • get over it
  • government
  • gratefulness
  • Graying Adoptees Still Searching for Their Identities
  • grief
  • Guardianship
  • guest posts
  • Hague Convention on Intercountry Adoption
  • Haiti's Children
  • Haiti-orphans
  • Haitian children
  • half orphan
  • half orphaned adoptee
  • halforphan56
  • Happy National Adoption Day
  • harassment of adoptee
  • Hatian Orphan Crisis
  • HB 5428
  • HB 5428 is NOT an adoptee rights bill
  • HB 5428 is NOT an adoption reform bill
  • HB 5428 is NOT an original birth certificate access bill
  • help your adoptee to heal
  • higher education in adoption
  • Hilbrand W.S. Westra
  • Hillary Clinton
  • HIPAA
  • honor the facts of life for an innocent child
  • Honoring all Mothers
  • hospital apology to mothers
  • House Bill# 4015
  • human rights
  • human service providers
  • humanitarian visas
  • humanitarin aid
  • illegal airlfit of children
  • illegitimate bastards
  • illegitimate birth
  • illegitimate vs legitimate
  • Illinois Action Today April 22
  • Illinois Governor Quinn
  • Illinois HB5428
  • Illinois HB5428 Became Law
  • inconsistencies in American adoption of black children
  • Inconsistencies on two birth certificates for same person
  • infertility clinic
  • intentional deception by adoptive parents
  • Intercountry Adoption
  • international
  • international law enforcment
  • International Reference Centre for the Rights of Children Deprived of Their Family
  • International Social Services
  • invasion of adoptee's privacy
  • it is over and done with
  • it's the way it was done
  • IVF Pregnancy Wrong Embryo
  • Jaycee Dugard
  • Joan Mary Wheeler born as Doris Michol Sippel
  • Joe Soll
  • John Greene
  • Keep Siblings Together in Haiti
  • Ken Watson
  • kidnapping
  • Kidnapping Charges
  • kidnapping newborn
  • kinship care
  • Korean Adoptee
  • lack of informed consent
  • Lawsuit over false information on birth certificate
  • legal guardianship
  • legitimate birth
  • legitimatebastard
  • let it be
  • lies
  • lies lies and more lies
  • life saving information unknown to adoptees
  • life stress scale
  • life-long reunion process
  • Lina Medina
  • LizzyBrew
  • Logan McQueary
  • Lorraine Dusky
  • loss of civil rights for adoptees
  • lying under oath
  • managemeenformation
  • manipulation of birth parents
  • many relationships in reunions
  • Maori
  • Maria Venus Raj
  • Mary Foess
  • Mary L Foess
  • medical facilities
  • mental stress of coerced surrender
  • Michigan adoptee OBC access legislation
  • Michigan House Bill #4006
  • misinterpretations
  • misrepresentation of material facts
  • Miss Philippines
  • Miss Philippines-Universe
  • Miss Universe Pageant
  • mixing up illegitimates and orphans in adoption
  • Molly Brown
  • mother of adoption loss
  • Mother's Day
  • motherhood
  • mothers in hiding
  • mothers of adoption loss
  • mothers unlawfully separated at birth from their offspring
  • mothers' human rights
  • mulit-billion-dollar adoption industry
  • music
  • mutual consent registries
  • my hospital birth records
  • names in death notice and obituary are public record
  • Nancy Grace
  • Nancy Verrier
  • National Adoption Awareness Month
  • National Council For Adoption
  • nationality unknown
  • natural disasters
  • natural family
  • natural family does not exist
  • natural family systems
  • natural father
  • natural father's written permission to my doctor to obtain his deceased wife's medical records
  • Natural Mother
  • natural mother's birthday
  • natural mother's death certificate
  • natural mother's death notice
  • natural mother's obituary
  • Natural Mothers
  • Natural Parents
  • Natural Parents Civil Rights
  • naturalized foreign born citizens should have full citizen rights
  • nature vs nurture
  • NCFA
  • NCFA-National Council For Adoption
  • need for change in adoption law
  • need for change in social policy
  • need for civil rights for all adoptees
  • negative publicity
  • New Jersey Birth Certificate Debate
  • New Jersey Public Television program Due Process
  • New Jersey State Bar Association
  • New York Times
  • New Zealand
  • NGOs - non-government-organizations
  • NJ-ACLU
  • no compromise on civil rights
  • no official paperwork for children
  • non-adopted persons
  • noncertified cpy of adoptee's original birth certificate
  • normal people
  • not all adoptees are illegitimate
  • NPR
  • Obama's long form birth certificate
  • obituary collections
  • officially altering birth certificates
  • openness and honesty in adoption
  • opposition to open records
  • original birth certifcate
  • original birth certifcates
  • original birth certificate
  • original birth certificates
  • Origins Inc
  • orphans
  • orphans in adoption
  • Orphans in Haiti
  • OURS
  • pain of loss
  • Pam Hasegawa
  • PAP's Pre-Adoptive Parents
  • parents of adoption loss
  • Part 5: Response to The Buffalo News 3-Part Series Search for Yesterday: Adoptive and Birth Parents See Reunion Problems: My Natural Father Speaks Out 1984
  • perjury
  • personal attacks
  • personal recovery from adoption trauma
  • personal responsibility
  • Peter Franklin
  • Petition and Description of Natural Family and Preadoptive Family
  • Petitioning Surrogate's Court for Sealed Adoption Records
  • posting words of others on intercountry adoptions
  • poverty
  • pre-adoptive parents
  • pre-adoptive parents in teh process of adopting from Haiti prior the earthquake
  • predatory pedophile Catholic priests
  • pregnancies resulting from priests raping girls
  • pregnancy resulting from mrape
  • prevent abduction
  • prevent trafficking of children
  • priests molesting girls
  • Proposed Federal Department of Family Preservation
  • protecting children
  • psychiatric life stress scale
  • psychological impact on the children
  • PTSD
  • Publish On Demand
  • questionable reasonable fees in adoption
  • ramifications of adoption
  • reality of adoption
  • redistributiono of children
  • Registrar of Vital Statistics
  • Registry Law Unjust to Adoptees
  • religion
  • religion used as a weapon
  • Religious Institute
  • religious vs secular authority
  • religiously based organizations and agencies
  • reporter misquoting adoptee causing misunderstanding
  • reproductive health
  • reproductive rights
  • Return Adult Adoptees the Right to Ther Original Birth Certificates
  • returned to their extended family
  • returned to their parents
  • reunions ebb and flow
  • Reverend Sally Hamlin
  • Ridicule
  • right to privacy
  • Rogelio Baena
  • safeguarding children
  • safety deposit box
  • sale and abduction of children
  • Salman Rushdie
  • Sandwhich years
  • Sara Feigenholtz
  • saving heathens
  • savor the moments
  • Scott Simon
  • sealed adoptees' original birth certificates
  • sealed adoption records
  • sealed birth certifcates
  • sealed birth certificate
  • sealed birth certificates
  • sealed records
  • Search For Yesterday
  • search info
  • secrets and lies in adoption
  • self-actualizing
  • self-improvement
  • sexologist
  • shades of grey
  • should be an adoption certificate
  • Signed Relinquishment of Parental Rights
  • single parents
  • skeletons in the closet
  • social work
  • social work scholars
  • Social Workers
  • society's perception of adoption as a belief
  • SOS Children's Villages
  • SOS Children's Villages update
  • State of Maine Birth Certificate Access Law for Adoptees
  • stay at home gala invitation 2009
  • stigmatizing labels do harm to adoptees
  • Stockholm Syndrome
  • stolen children
  • Stop Adoptions from Haiti
  • Stop issuing falsified birth certificates
  • stories told about adoptee's birth
  • support for women and children
  • Surrogate Court Judge Sealed My Records Needlessly
  • Surrogate's Court
  • Take Away Community
  • Tammi and Jack Smith
  • Tao Te Ching
  • tax credits for adoption
  • tell the truth to your adoptee
  • The Buffalo News
  • The Buffalo News series Seach For Yesterday Double Trouble Adoptees Face Fear Betrayal When Looking For Birth Parents
  • The Buffalo News series Search For Yesterday Adoptive Parents' Dilemma 1984
  • The Child Trauma Academy
  • The Declasified Adoptee
  • The New York State Adoption Reunion Registry
  • The Search For Anna Fisher
  • The Stranger Who looks Like Me
  • things are different now
  • to recruit members of their faith
  • Tom Snyder
  • Top 10 Ideas For Change in America Contest
  • traffickers
  • Trafford Publishing
  • Trauma response
  • trauma therapy
  • truth in adoption
  • truthful birth certificate
  • two gay fathers on falsified birth certificate
  • two gay men on a birth certificate
  • two married parents
  • two sets of parents
  • UAI - United Adoptees International
  • umarried mothers
  • uncertain identities
  • unconditional access to adoptees' sealed birth certificates
  • underground searches
  • understanding the individual in society
  • unethical adoption practices
  • unfair labels placed on adoptees
  • ungrateful
  • UNICEF
  • Unintended Surrogate Mother
  • Unitarian Universalist Church
  • United Adoptees International
  • United Nations Rights of the Child
  • universal adoption certificate
  • universal birth certificate
  • unmarried parents
  • unnatural
  • unrealistic expectations of adoption
  • unsealed adoption records
  • Unsealed Initiative
  • unsealing OBC
  • unwed mother
  • US Constitution backs adoptive parents rights not adoptees and not genetic and birth parents
  • US Dept of State
  • US District Court
  • UU Church
  • video
  • violation to human right of identity
  • visitation
  • vital records
  • vote for "Return Adult Adoptees the right to their Original Birth Certificates"
  • VOTE TODAY FOR ADOPTEES' CIVIL RIGHTS
  • vulnerable families and children
  • war
  • warnings of adopting Earthquake Haitian children
  • webinar: Layers of Trauma for Haiti's Orphans
  • Western Australia State Government
  • what happens to illegitimate children of pedophile priests
  • When Adoption Ceases to Exist
  • when an adoptee goes public
  • When Will I Get Over It
  • Where are adoptees' civil liberties?
  • where to buy my book
  • white children adopted from Europe into America
  • who are my god parents?
  • Why are our birth certificates sealed at all?
  • William H. Mild III
  • wish parents
  • woman suffrance
  • womanhood
  • worldwide publishing
  • Would YOU have liked it if your mother gave you away?
  • writers
  • you could have been aborted
  • you could have been thrown in a dumpster
  • young mother and baby not separated by adoption
  • Youngest Mother

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